Just take a moment and appreciate the epic-ness of these ear pieces.
I’m going to have a love affair with my fridge. It’s always been there for me, good times and bad. It has never betrayed me, and it never will. It keeps lovely food inside of it so I will always have something to munch on. I’ve cried to it, and it just sits there listening, not interrupting. It lets me have my feelings and it lets me have my way with it. Dear Fridge, I love you. Will you marry me?
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You make friends the same way that you always have. Mutual acquaintances, common shared interests, figuring out that they don’t annoy you as much as other people. Then you make them dinner, or go bowling, or do bad karaoke together.
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| — | Hank Green, on making friends as an adult (via r0und-here) |
BECAUSE LBR, BORRA IS MEANT TO BE(!!!)
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SOOOOO… As much as I dislike this TSwift song, THIS THREAD HAPPENED
AND IT HAD TO BE DONE.
Taylor SwiftBolin - Korra, You Belong With MeTHIS IS THE BEST THING IN THE WORLD
I’M SOBBING.
AND BOLIN’S… NOT IN THE BLEACHERS
(BUT STILL NOT CAPTAIN)
AM FUCKING UNABLE TO CAN
Don't Try To Convince Me:
Tyler: That knowledge for the answer to any question you ask?
Me: Then my question has to be good.
Tyler: Well the deal can be repeated with a different rumor
Me: The questions has to be good since it's unlikely I'll repeat the deal. It's hard to spread a good rumor about yourself and have people believe it.
Tyler: Why wouldn't you repeat the deal? It's not like I would tell anyone the rumors are false...
Me: I know. And I trust you not to. But should a certain rumor ever fall to your ears; it's best if you believe it and cut off your friendship with me rather than dismiss and continue being friends.
Tyler: Why is that best?
Me: Because it's better for everyone if I don't have and friends at all.
Tyler: ??!
Me: Just believe me. It would be better for everyone if I were friendless; but since I cannot dictate the actions of others; and I enjoy people; I have friends.
Tyler: I won't believe you until you give me a good reason.
Me: In which case you'll be stuck without one.
Tyler: Why!?
Me: Because some things are better left unturned and some things should be buried and forgotten unless there is a really urgent reason. There isn't an urgent situation.
Tyler: Hmmm.....................................................................................
Me: That is a really long thought.
Tyler: Yup....
Me: ?
Tyler: I don't think anyone should be friendless...Hmm... Trying to understand your logic....
Me: There are some people that most certainly should be friendless. Though they are rare, I happen to be one of them. And understanding my logic is a foolish thing to do.
Tyler: But you are a fun friend and without you we wouldn't all exist.
Me: So you say.
Tyler: Well you did create us all....
Me: I did not.
Tyler: lol. But still you are one of the few friends that I have that are randomly crazy. Which is good.
Me: Oh? Well in that case: Glad to be amusing with my random craziness, but I still don't deserve friends.
Tyler: So you think you don't deserve friends, why is that?
Me: No. I know I don't deserve friends. I have several reasons; and one of the most public ones that no one seems to notice is that I cannot relate with people. I cannot empathize with people. I'm no good in social situations, and I have no idea what to do or say no matter what mood people are in. Everything I do centers around me and my mood, no one else's. I have no filter, nor do I care to have one. I don't care how what I say affects other people. I'm just not a bitch for the sake of being one.
Tyler: So by that logic I shouldn't have friends with a little less not caring how I affect people.
Me: No. You do deserve friends. And nothing could change that. There are several more reasons why I don't, but those are best left alone.
Tyler: Hmm... Does it have anything to do with your previous/possible current depressiveness?
Me: And here I thought you forgot about all that. It's a possibility, but I'm not depressed.
Tyler: You should have known better, I'm observant.
Me: You're right I should have. Apparently you're more observant and have a better memory than I've found to be typical. Still not depressed though.
Tyler: Hmm... I still don't understand why you think you don't deserve friends... You make friends the easiest...
Me: hmmm... Maybe it's best you don't understand. And how do I make friends the easiest?
Tyler: You just do, you walk up to someone and start talking. I can just see you doing that; say because of a hat or something that interests you.
Me: Hmm.. True fine. I make friends easily. Doesn't mean I deserve them.
Tyler: Why!?!?
Me: Because I don't. Because I'm a horrible person. Because I lack necessary socially acceptable standards. Because I'm overtly hyper. Because I just don't care. Because I'm selfish and self-centered. Because I used to be depressed. Because when it comes down to everything, I'm useless. Use whatever reason makes you happy, hell you can make up one of your own. I don't deserve friends.
Tyler: Okay. I'll start from the top; You're not a horrible person, you're a crazy fun person. There are no such things as 'necessary socially acceptable standards.' It's more fun to just be yourself. Most everyone is self-centered and don't care. Forget about the past, and how are you useless? At least any more useless than the rest of us.
Me: Oh yes. It is more fun, which is why I am myself. What's the point of being anything else.
Tyler: Precisely.
Me: Nothing you said proves anything though.
Tyler: Have you been convinced at least a little!?
Me: Tyler. Read very carefully: As much as I partially understand what you're doing, I don't understand why. I believe what I believe for a reason, and no matter what anyone say; ever; I will always believe that I am not deserving of friends.
Tyler: And according to your logic, I don't deserve friends for 4 reasons.
Me: But; you are beginning to rub off. It's possible that I may be partially deserving of at least one friend. But it doesn't matter. And no. Why I don't deserve friends is specific to me. You will always deserve friends.
Tyler: And I believe it's up to other people to decide what kind of person you are considered. I will bet $20 no one will tell you you're horrible.
Me: Oh yes. It is up to other people how they consider me, but I consider myself in a far different manner. And what makes you think that? What makes you think everyone will answer truthfully?
Tyler: Because you're definitely not horrible. *sigh* Ok. You may think what you want, but that doesn't mean you're right. How did you become so pessimistic? Normally you strike me as an upbeat kind of gal.
Me: I'm not pessimistic. I'm optimistic. I just have an entirely different view of myself. My ego vs. my inner belief is kind of weird. While my ego is large, I just don't believe that I deserve most of what I have. In general though; when it doesn't concern what I do or don't deserve and what not; I'm extremely optimistic.
